Threats!!!!!

Yes, I was conveniently not home for his visitation but he was to stay in Dothan for the weekend visitation anyways...why not get a hotel room and come to the Cutest Baby Contest? I told him where it was going to be? Oh that's right...he wasn't going to pay for a hotel room. He was going to take her up to see his mom in Alabaster...judging by her message.

This whole thing has NOTHING to do with Kelsey. So sad. I don't doubt his love for her but this is all about control. He's trying to get his con back in order. That's all this is...a con. Our whole relationship was a CON. He's a con-artist and a liar. He's a good one too because he had me trapped in this shitty relationship for nearly 2 years. He broke me down so bad it was really hard to get back up and out of there. I bought his lies. Not because of trust but because he took all that was me and I was trapped in a sick cycle with him. I will NEVER allow that to happen again. No way! Lesson has been learned the hard way....and continues to be learned as this develops into a shit storm. I say bring it on though. I can't say that denying visitation is right but it was right for the moment. I am not a perfect parent but I try and its an endless struggle to continue to do what's right for my kids.

oh and what I find the funniest in that VM was his allegation of just going to get a temporary order to get Kelsey and he was just going to come over here and snatch her up. Um, no. You can't pay your child support because you have no job and according to your emails...no vehicle and living like a hobo between your dad's place and mom's? That's really a fit lifestyle for a baby.

Anywho...bring it on Baby Daddy from Hell. There's a lot of fight in me yet and I am not giving in to you for my Kelsey Poo. She deserves more in life than a deadbeat dad!