Karma's a Bitch

While I do not wish jail on anyone, some people deserve it. Let’s take my daughter’s deadbeat father for example. This is a man who not only followed me all the way to the child support office but blew my phone up the entire time with texts saying “You don’t have to do this…lets work this out of court” and then gets in the CSEO and loudly stating “How many men voluntarily come to this office to sign paperwork?” Yep. This is the same person who paid their child support for two months after a nasty court battle and then nothing. Nothing…But  let me be fair, he did send $50-75 a few times via Wal-Mart Money Gram.

I can speculate all day long and twice on Sunday what I think is going on in this man’s head but I’d be wasting my time. I know that he cares for her but there is a line that people have to cross from caring for a beautiful child to wanting to make sure that said child is taken care of. Deadbeat daddy lacks the ability to cross this line. I know lots of people that know her and care for her but do they take care of her? No. They shouldn’t. This is not their responsibility…it is his and my responsibility to do this. It is what I have done since she was born and what he has not voluntarily said he would do, court ordered to do legally and has been tried criminally to do yet has FAILED to actually do.

What kind of person does this? On a psychological level I could really go into depth with him and actually I personally think that he shows traits of a narcissist, sociopath, or anti-social behavior, the list goes on and on but what it all boils down to is immaturity. He is immature, irresponsible, and incompetent to be a parent. He’s done some crazy stuff since ‘07, even threatening my life on multiple occasions, and has gone unchecked for far, FAR too long. He even had the nerve to tell me that the only reason he didn’t pay was because he was upset that I dumped him. Poor jilted excuse only validates my assumption for far too long that the craziness had nothing to do with the baby. He was mad because I broke up with him.  

I have told him over and over again that his actions may temporarily affect me but in the long run the only person he was hurting was his daughter and I am done. My job as a parent is to protect my children not only from physical harm but emotional harm as well. This crap is going to come to an end and for the right reasons. 

The law is on MY side. He will face the legal repercussions of his actions. Law will prevail. Order will be restored to my life and that of my family. Justice will be served and I will have personal satisfaction when he pays the piper. 

Peace and chicken grease...